A Favour

A friend asked me for a favour this week.

I am a big fan of favours, I ask them all the time, and I am thrilled be able to give in return.

But I get the impression that this friend is a little shy about asking favours, and I had a big think about the favour, and why I am so happy to help out.

It’s because I am so damn flattered that this friend thought I could be useful. In my new role of chief bum and snot wiper, I rarely think of myself in terms of my skills and achievements, and to be asked to do this particular favour made me think about myself in a different light. It’s not a hard thing to do, but it does require attention to detail, and a grown up demeanor – both of which I am sure I can muster up, though they haven’t been used in ages 🙂

So, friend (you know who you are), thanks for thinking so highly of me. I’m really touched.

Mwah!

Fourteen months

I was holding this post until I could add some pics, but the computer drama is ongoing, and he’s now 15 months old, so bombs away!

We saw the paediatrician again on the 15th. Kid is just shy of 11kg – that’s 500g in a month.

HC 49.2cm
L 79.6cm
W 10.96kg

He had to have a blood test (rock swallowing is a sign that iron levels are low), for which he was very brave.

I had a blood test, and a chest x-ray. Doctor wants to be sure that the cough I have had for 6 weeks isn’t consumption. ETA – it wasn’t consumption, it was Whooping cough…

So, back to the kid.

Lots has happened since our last update. We have independent standing, we have much babbling, and much actual talking. He has mastered “ta”, and “more”. We’re still working on “please”. Though the favourite, favourite, word/sentence is “giggle, giggle, giggle, giggle, giggle, OH”. Giggle is sometimes pronounced Gayggle. It’s very cute until the final OH – which is often VERY loud, especially in the car.

He is loving all types of music, and dances in his funny “I can’t move my knees without falling over” way.

He’s got a few new nicknames. As well as Squishy, Squidgy, Squirt, Squirty, Iggy, The Igster, and Mr Yellington, he now also gets “Leon Grotsky”. Leon for short.

He’s started to actually wrap his chubby little arms around me for a cuddle, which melts my heart every single time. Even when he grabs a handful of hair and pulls.

Sleep is back on track. Apart from today, when both his naps were too short, and he was ratty all day, he usually gets enough sleep to be charming for the rest of the day. Touch wood.

Today he we tried self feeding with a spoon for the first time. It wasn’t an unmitigated disaster, but I did put a stop to things when he put his whole hand into the bowl for the third time.

Once, he molested another kid at playgroup, pulled his hair and made him cry. Once. Every other altercation between him and another kid has ended up with the other kid coming out on top. Inigo seems to be very calm, and centred, and perplexed about the universe conspiring against him. Very accepting though, and he hardly ever gets upset when another kid steals his toys, pushes him over, or tries to ride him.

He’s still obsessed with things in the air. Birds, helicopters, aeroplanes, balls, stuffed pink elephants, whatever. Especially when he is tired, objects flying above his head lead to increasing hysteria.

He’s mastered waving (though usually not until you’ve turned your back and walk away), and is taking lots of steps as long as he has a hand to hold along the way.

Problem

Winter is coming. Kid won’t tolerate blankets when sleeping. Sleepsacks too small, too expensive to replace.

Solution.

1. Fix sewing machine. Check (with caveat – still no working zig zag stitch…)

2. Visit Spotlight. Check

3. Trace existing sleepsack, embiggen.

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Check

4. Copy neckline from groovy new jammies.

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Check

5. Cut out basic pattern for Sleepsack V1.0

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Check

6. Search internets for bias tape destructions Check

7. Confirm status as “Legend in One’s Own Lunchbox”

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Check

A good excuse for a trip to Spotlight

A campaign for marriage equality has started in the U.S. White Knot is asking people to wear a knotted white ribbon symbolising that everyone should have the right to tie the knot.

Wear a White Knot on Thursday

wherever you are. whatever you are doing.

The California Supreme Court will be hearing the arguments to invalidate Prop 8 which banned same-sex marriage. The result of this case will impact the fight for equal rightsthroughout the country. On Thursday, show the world how much support Marriage Equality has by wearing your White Knot and telling people why.

So this may be all about what is happening in America, but I believe that acceptance in America will help bring acceptance here. And everywhere.

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