Nothing to report

Just sticking up a post so that people don’t think I have completely succumbed to alcoholism and despair.

I am going to post a copy of the funeral ceremony soon, but I thought I would wait until I had some photos to post at the same time – but I am in no hurry. I can’t yet look at the memorial cards – and if you wanted to be there and couldn’t be, let me know and I will send you a copy of the order of service and a comment card. So your thoughts for us can be included in our memorial.

So yes, things are bleak. And I don’t have energy, emotional of physical for anything other than getting through each day.

11 thoughts on “Nothing to report”

  1. I did very much want to be there and couldn’t. Rather than post comment card all the way to US and back just let me know what it should look like and I will send one. Love jane


  2. Getting through the day is huge, and you are doing a wonderful job of being a mum, a wife, a friend and a cool human being. It is totally okay for you to use your energy on the important stuff like taking care of yourself.


  3. I would very much have liked to have been there but it wasnt possible. Were all thinking of you and the family last Friday and everyday.


  4. I know I can’t say anything that will help. Just know that I think of you and your family every day. I would have loved to have stood by you at the twins funeral.


  5. It was a beautiful service Lara. You and Mark are inspiring parents – even though it may not feel like it. I know I dont understand what it feels like but I hope that in time the pain subsides.


  6. Dear Lara – “just” getting through the day, is a bigger accomplishment than you think. You, Mark Inigo, Archie and Aubrey are still in my thoughts regularly.
    Hang in there babe – I’d love to be able to say it gets easier/better over time, but it doesn’t – it just changes somehow.
    You have shown such amazing strength and courage these past months – you are so allowed to fall in a heap now until life catches up with that.
    Much love and strength to you.
    Ange T


  7. You and Mark are inspirational people and Archie and Aubrey’s memories will be held most dearly by their amazing parents and shared by those who know and love these wonderful people…I am sorry i could not be at the service but please know you are in my thoughts very much.

    Day by day is all that anyone could expect!


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